It is well said by William
Wordsworth that 'The child is father of the man.' What
he learns during childhood is depicted in his adulthood. Therefore, it is
crucial that children's upbringing should be properly taken care of. Parents are the
best teachers, guides and caretakers. No one can take their place as they only
can think, unconditionally, about their children's future. They
can mould their children in which ever way they want.
Modern age is full of
complexities and perplexities. Man hardly gets time to think and
watch. Science and technology has endowed luxurious machinery that man can live
his life comfortably, But these comforts are making man slave of them. He is so
engaged in consuming luxuries that he either has become
inactive or ambitious for accumulating them more and more. Therefore,
he has to run after making money W.H. Davies says;
'What is this life if full of care; We have
no time to stand and stare .•
The modern parents are not
untouched with this. They are so busy in fulfilling their desires and ambitions
that they hardly get time to look after their children. No doubt, they provide
all the facilities and comforts to the children, but what about the quality
time which they should give to their children to inculcate values of
life?
Since the life
has become so hectic, it hardly gives parents a chance to have leisure with children.
It inhibits proper communication between parents and children which leads to isolation and
loneliness. Children have to cope up with so many psychological complexities
that they can not do it without the support of their parents. If their
psychological needs are not fulfilled, it
drives them to behave abnormally, then
ultimately they are found culprit of all the wrongs. Family
disputes are the consequence of these abnormalities. Therefore, it is
essential for the parents to give quality time to the children and for that
they have to curb their own desires. Parties, meetings,
social activities or ambition for making money, earning
status are all things which they have to balance for the sake of their children, then
only will they be able to shape a better
future and this will flower into a healthy society and a prosperous
country.
Dr. Vivek Agrawal
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The need to curb parental desire will help in shaping children's future
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I think that the favour of this topic is best from my veto.
At that era of modernization,when the generation of youth's get dismissed from their paths and get confused and ruins their lifes due to their own decisions they take while adviced by the elders.
Parents always thinks best for their childs.They never want their childs to be trapped in bad habits and take path for destroy of own future.every guardian wants their childs to achieve the destiny whom they wants to be in their life but they never achieve in life.So every guardian have more hopes from their childs.
so,by taking view of the desires of guardians every child have to create his own path for success in a planned manner to be the one which their parents wants.
so,all of us have to hear and think above the guardians thoughts and adviced and have not to avoid them because these are the lessons which they learns from their mistakes they make in their life and not want that their childs also do the same mistakes.
every parents cares for their childs desires and this is our duty to curb their desires and have to scarify our some desires for their happiness.
these are my views.
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ANKIT KATARE
E.C.
IInd sem.
IPS-CTM
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DeleteI M IN FAVOUR OF THIS , PARENTS SHOULD CURB THEIR DESIRES FOR SHAPING CHILDREN FUTURE.
ReplyDeleteIn today’s scenario parents don’t have time for their children. they are least bothered about them & their future. Children are like burden on them. parties, meeting, social networking s, personal desires etc makes them more busy , that they even can’t spend a quality time with their children. As a result a child is left alone .he has nobody to guide him what is wrong & what is right for him. parents even do not know what is all going on in their children lives. And children end up by ruining their lives. Today about 60% of children are facing the psychological problems which can be solved just by parental care & support. Children when live alone invoke some bad habits like smoking, drinking, harsh driving etc. Its all due to the lost parental care & parental support or eye on their children. They develop such kind of habits & are proned towards illegal activities & crime. Lost parental care is main reason behind the juvenile acts. So there is a need that parents should show active participation in child’s career only then will our country will progress because- today’s children are tomorrows future.
GARIMA AGRAWAL
C.S 2nd SEM
1st year
ips-ctm
THIS IS ACCORDINGLY CORRECT TO ME, LIKE IF U REALLY LIKE IT....
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